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WJ Duke Dufresne

1949 - 2023

WJ Duke Dufresne obituary, 1949-2023, Sacramento, CA

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WJ Duke Dufresne
October 20, 2023
WJ Duke Dufresne, known to many as 'Bill', passed away peacefully at his home in Sacramento, CA on October 20, 2023, surrounded by his loving family.
Duke/Billy was born in Derby, CT to parents Francis J. Dufresne and Louise (Houghton) Dufresne on April 13, 1949. He grew up in Ansonia (Class of '67) and went on to study Liberal Arts at Bates College in Maine. He earned a B.A. in Biology from UMass Boston, an M.D. in Medicine from Tufts University School of Medicine, and completed his residency at St. Clare's Residency Program, now Ellis Hospital Family Medicine Residency in Schenectady, NY. Duke began his medical career in Kentucky in public health, serving underserved communities, and eventually settled in Upstate New York.
During his short stint at Bates, Duke met the love of his life, Elizabeth 'Betty' Ireland, and married on September 19, 1970, at the Temple in Ocean Park, Maine. OP continues to hold a special place in the hearts of Duke's family. Duke and Betty recently celebrated 53 years of adventurous marriage. Duke is survived by Betty and their three adoring children: Ben, Dylan, and Zachary. He was predeceased by his much-loved brother, Robbie Dufresne. Duke was ever proud of his children and over the moon with his grandchildren, Ellie and Otto.
Duke's medical career took him many places, with Portland, ME being one of his favorites. He established a unique and broad-based career, passionately contributing to a wide range of organizations. Duke took great pride in his work as a medical professional and helping those most in need. He delivered over 1,000 babies in his storied career and continued to help folks with medical issues and advice up until his final days. His most recent position was Senior Medical Director at Tufts Health Public Plans.
Recently retired, Duke and Betty moved to Sacramento, CA so they could enjoy the sunny weather and their grandchildren. Duke was the 'fun' guy in the family who loved good music (especially Pentatonix), good food (especially varied), and good booze. His absence will be sorely felt by his wife and kids; brother Rick Dufresne; sister Dina Dufresne; stepmother Loretta Dufresne; extended family; and many, many good friends and colleagues. We will all miss him dearly, from his worldly and sage advice to his inclusivity and consideration for all and his incredible aptitude for doing for others.
A private celebration of life will be held in the summer in CT. Duke has chosen to have his body composted into new growth forest. You are invited to send condolences to [email protected]. Duke was a supporter of many causes, one of which was Doctors Without Borders, and we encourage donations in his honor.

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Published by The New Haven Register on Oct. 23, 2023.

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DF

November 3, 2023

Hi guys, miss you all
Duke asked me to clear the wood line last year, I asked why? He replied to see what's beyond while walking in his yellow slippers. We used the Lionel set the other night. Thank you for your kindness. We love you

John Dockrey, RN

October 29, 2023

I worked with Duke at Tufts Health Plan. He was a soft spoken person whose drive to ensure the best access to care and resources were readily available to the mass health community was palpable.
He was a great physician, leader, and mentor who treated everyone with care and respect.
I´m sorry for your loss. He was a fantastic man.

Katharine Horn

October 28, 2023

I worked with Duke at CDPHP where he was one of our medical directors. He was a very knowledgeable physician and shared his knowledge with the nurses, focused on the person first and was always willing to help. He was down to earth and very approachable.

Jack Mortensen

October 26, 2023

Duke was a friend and workout partner of my Brother Mike Mortensen when the Dufresne lived in Glenville IN 1992 my mother was having health problems and mike called Duke and he said bring her right to St Clairs as soon as she got there Duke took over her case in the ER and you would have thought it was a Hollywood celebrity he found the problem right away we lost her 5 days later to a brain tumor.Duke treated Her and us like family I will always remember him and will be forever greatful.MY heartfelt condolences to betty and all the family,Jack Mortensen

Marie Cunningham

October 26, 2023

My sincere condolences to all who loved Dr. Dufresne. "Duke" was someone I had the pleasure to work with at Tufts Health Plan. He was so congenial and kind, wise and knowledgeable. Love this photo! It makes me smile. Marie Cunningham

Susan Tunak

October 25, 2023

I was shocked to hear of Duke's passing. My condolences to you all. I worked with Duke, first at United HealthCare many years ago and most recently at Tufts Health Plan/Point32Health. He was one of the nicest people and most approachable doctors I have ever worked with. He will be missed.

Melanie Quinn

October 25, 2023

Sending my deepest condolences to his family. He was my Dr. at St. Clair´s. Great man.

dina dufresne

October 24, 2023

For everyone who is as shocked and saddened as we are for the seemingly sudden loss of Bill, please find peace in hearing about how beautiful his final time here with us was spent.

Bill´s days in hospice care at home were blessedly few which he savored with his family, especially his grandchildren who brought him immense joy. The team that cared for him could not have been more humane nor more attentive to the needs of him and his family. They got to know Bill when they first arrived and enjoyed his wit and humor. They grieved along with his family for their own loss of this special man they´d come to know and admire as his health deteriorated.

He left us at the only time when his wife, three children, his remaining brother, and his sister were able to be together by his side. It´s uncanny really that this would be the moment, almost as if it had been orchestrated this way by Bill himself.

His family chose an outfit he would wear to his last destination that was the perfect combination of comfort and flare that those who knew him came to expect. Bill carried nothing but a Charleston Chew that was placed in his pocket from the supply of them he had ordered just a few days prior.

The team that came to escort Bill were respectful and kind. It was late at night, so the residential neighborhood of tree lined streets were quiet and dark with no other pedestrians nor traffic in sight as they carried Bill to their vehicle. The driver asked us to choose a favorite song of Bill´s and was informed of anything by Pentatonix. The windows were open with the volume turned up, and as they drove slowly away for Bill´s last time down his street and then turned the corner, we could still hear the music, loudly at first, and then slowly fading away until it became dark and quiet once more.

"Hello darkness, my old friend
I've come to talk with you again
Because a vision softly creeping
Left its seeds while I was sleeping
And the vision that was planted in my brain still remains
Within the sound of, silence
In restless dreams I walked alone
Narrow streets of cobblestone
'Neath the halo of the streetlamp
I turned my collar to the cold and damp
When my eyes were stabbed
By the flash of a neon light
That split the night
And touched the sound
Of silence"

Rest In Peace Brother
Rest In Peace Husband, Father, Grandfather, Relative, Friend, Coworker, Physician, Humanitarian

Ryan McKeown

October 24, 2023

So sorry for your loss. Really enjoyed working with Duke many years ago at Martin´s Point in Portland, ME. What a tremendous impact he has had on thousands of patients and members.

MariAgnes Malkonian

October 24, 2023

To the Family of Dr Dufresne,

Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. As a physician recruiter representing many companies, I had the pleasure of working with him in Schenectady County. Dr D. was truly a man of integrity, dedication, and professionalism.

My deepest sympathies,
MariAgnes Malkonian

Rosie Sprague

October 24, 2023

I worked with Duke for many years at Tufts Health Plan. I will never forget singing Duke of Earl and dancing with him in the lobby. What an AMAZING man. I am very privileged in the fact that he touched my world and completely honored that he was not only a colleague and mentor but a friend. I will always remember the added twinkle in his eyes when talking about his grandchildren. My sympathies and thoughts to his family.

Sheri Kosloski

October 24, 2023

I worked at St. Clares Hospital in Schenectady when Dr. D was a resident, one of the best and became my doctor. He assisted my husband and I through a difficult pregnancy guiding us to make the best choices. My son is now a healthy 28 year old Drill Sergeant. You will be missed greatly by so many Dr. Duke. Rest on...

Denise Frierson

October 24, 2023

He will be greatly missed. He was an inspiration at Tuft's Health Plan. Enjoyed knowing and working with him

Erin Vaughn

October 24, 2023

I worked with Dr. Dufresne at CDPHP. He was a wonderful coworker and I'm so sorry for your loss. Rest easy my friend.

Amy Price

October 24, 2023

Dear Dufresne Family:

I worked with Duke for a number of years at Tufts Health Plan. I will always remember his kindness, extensive knowledge and his love for people, especially his family. He was a wonderful physician and advocate and will be missed.

I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Please accept my sincere condolences and deepest sympathies.

Anne Cunningham

October 23, 2023

Duke was one of the warmest, kindest, compassionate and knowledgeable physicians I have ever known. He was candid and genuine, honest and approachable. I worked with Duke at Tufts Health Plan and miss him dearly. My heartfelt condolences to everyone in his family. Godspeed, Duke.

Kay Rizzo

October 23, 2023

Dear Dufresne Family:
Dr Duke was the gold standard of healthcare providers. I have never met anyone that had such true compassion and empathy for every single member he served and every provider he encountered and naturally taught. Healthcare is better because of his touch and his ways. He was so down to earth, peaceful, wise and such a natural mentor to many. He will be greatly missed

Chris Walcek

October 23, 2023

I´ll always remember Duke´s tremendous theatrical talents as the dubious doctor whose main role in the semi-annual `Revels´ show at the Unitarian Society Schenectady was showering the audience with `Pills´ (marshmallows) that could cure any ailment !!! I wish I could throw some his way!

Carole Kennally

October 23, 2023

Dear Mrs. Dufresne and Family,
I have happy memories of working with Duke while he was at Martin's Point in Maine. His professionalism, integrity and wonderful sense of humor made him a joy to work with. He also took on and won the challenge to make MLK an honored holiday at MP. Sincere condolences to you and family. Sincerely, Carole Kennally, RN

Paula Shaw

October 23, 2023

Betty,
I am very sorry to hear about Duke´s passing and will always remember him in his humorous role in UUSS´ Revels.

Poul

October 23, 2023

Was with Duke at UMass/Boston and since then.he was wicked smart and a great exemplar for me

Darlene Waters

October 23, 2023

Dear Duke's Family (Betty)
I worked with Duke for 10 years at Tufts we started at the same time. I loved him. He was the most genuine , kind , empathetic doctor I have ever worked with being a nurse I've worked with lots of Dr's. He was one of a kind
I learned so much from him. I'm so so sorry Betty he told me so many lovely things about you and his sons. He was so happy to be a grandpa too !! He just had the most beautiful soul and was very funny too. I will miss him but remember his smiling face. He was the best and he made me a better nurse with all the knowledge he shared with us all at THP God bless you all
Love Darlene Waters D'India

Ayse Barkus

October 23, 2023

I worked with Duke at Tufts Health plan. He is one of the most kindest, compassionate, and intelligent person I have met. When I first started we were in the Medford office. What I remember fondly is that every Friday at 4 pm Duke would walk around with his bubble. he would go to every employees desk and blow them bubbles. He would say that no matter how hard our week may have been to know that our troubles are like the bubble he blew the will go away and dissipate. He was a advocate for our members and a teacher to his coworkers. I am honored to have worked with such a wonderful person. My thought and prayer are now with his family in this difficult time. May he rest in peace.

Ayse Barkus

October 23, 2023

I worked closely with Duke at Network Health/Tufts Health Plan. He was such a kind person. He was a great advocate for our members and he respected the nurses he worked with. When we were in the Medford office, every Friday, Duke would go around with his bubbles and blow them at every employees desk. He would say may your troubles be like these bubbles and float away and dissipate. He made such a huge impact on so many of his coworkers lives. He will be greatly missed! My prayers and thoughts go out to his family.

Karen Potenza

October 23, 2023

Duke was one of the most selfless and giving humans I´ve ever had the honor to know. He glowed when he talked about his family and at the same time treated everyone lucky enough to know him, like family. He was so willing to share his knowledge and wisdom even during incredibly stressful times. He left an imprint in my heart that will never be replaced. "Bubble Up" my friends. I will think of you every time I hear that song

Cindy Laggis

October 23, 2023

I worked with Duke at Tufts Health Plan and he was such a joy to work with. I miss his knowledge and expertise in the Medicaid space, but more importantly he was so approachable and had a wonderful sense of humor. My condolences to the family.

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